Marriage Counseling Agency Marry Me Releases Latest Advice on Marriage Activities 'What Married Couples Should Do Immediately After Christmas'

Miyuki Uekusa, the representative of Marriage Counseling Agency Marry Me (MSP Corporation, Head Office: Shibuya-ku, Tokyo), with a track record of over 1,000 successful marriages, announces her latest advice on marriage activity in this press release.

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Representative of Marriage Counseling Agency Marry Me, Miyuki Uekusa

■What people who are engaged in marriage activity should do immediately after Christmas has passed

Christmas is the most important time of the year for those who are engaged in marriage activities, and it is also the time when the number of marriage proposals is the highest in the year. At our company, Marry Me, we also had a record number of proposals this year. However, on the other hand, those who say, "I couldn't find a girlfriend again this year..." may be having a very difficult time right now.

In such a case, please don't give up and say, "That's enough. In fact, there is another chance for a comeback right after Christmas. It is New Year's and Valentine's Day.

First of all, New Year's is a great chance to say hello to people you haven't seen in a while! And it is also a time when many people are taking it easy during the vacations. If you have someone you are interested in, it is a good time to say "Happy New Year! How are you doing?" or "HAPPY NEW YEAR! Let's go out for dinner after a long time.

What is not good is to be too formal or nervous and call them in a serious manner. It is important to communicate in a fun New Year's atmosphere. Even people at work should be able to communicate with you by writing New Year's cards and New Year's e-mails with the same atmosphere and using language that is not rude.

And if there is no one you are interested in, contact old classmates and acquaintances. If you are not interested in someone, contact your old classmates and acquaintances.

■ Ask or explore the willingness to marry someone you think might be a good match.

If you find someone you like at the end of your New Year's exchanges, first ask if he or she is single and if he or she intends to get married. If you think, "I can't ask such a thing myself...," my advice is to listen and explore as just one opinion. At this stage, just ask them if they are married to someone else or if they are willing to marry someone else. It is not to ask if they are willing to marry you.

After completing this step, you will start to communicate more closely, but here is the most important point in marriage activity. That is, in the course of small talk only, you should let them know that "I want to marry the next person I go out with. It is of utmost importance to bring up the subject at a stage before you both start liking each other. And once you start to fall in love with your partner, Valentine's Day is the best time to confess your feelings. Make reservations at a nice restaurant as soon as possible, and ask them, "I got reservations at that restaurant I've been wanting to go to, would you like to go with me? and confess your feelings to her.

■When confessing, share that you are planning to get married.

Many women think that they would like a man to confess his feelings to them, but recently the number of confessions from men has been decreasing considerably. Because of the fear of being misunderstood as "00 harassment" and the increase in the number of naïve men, it is becoming common knowledge in the marriage activity industry that "things will not progress unless the woman side makes a move. Therefore, regardless of gender, I would like you to confess your feelings to anyone you are interested in without fear.

What is important here, however, is to confirm that "As I told you before, I only want to go out with someone I can consider marriage with, so will you go out with me on that premise?" Before going out with someone, I would ask, "Will you go out with me on the assumption that we are going to get married? Before going out with someone, ask them to agree to go out with you toward marriage. Whether or not you can share this premise makes a world of difference in your marriage activities.

In our case, we are a marriage agency, so this premise is shared from the beginning of the relationship. Furthermore, we support you well so that things go smoothly, but in a normal relationship, you have to make sure that you have properly checked this premise by yourself from this point on. If you go out with someone without having cleared this point, you may end up breaking up after years of dating, or you may end up "losing love" in your marriage life, so please be really careful and do your best.

Marriage Counseling Agency Marry Me will continue to provide advice on marriage activity in accordance with the times.

◆Marriage Consulting Agency Marry Me Representative: Miyuki Uekusa Career

Advisor for love and marriage activity, Representative Director of MSP Inc.

Ltd., a staffing agency specializing in the apparel industry, in 1995. In 2009, she started Marry Me, a marriage counseling agency, utilizing her coordination skills and achievements cultivated through her experience in the industry.

For the past 14 years, he has advised approximately 2,000 people a year, including those on the radio, and boasts a marriage rate of approximately 80% (*), compared to the industry average of 15%. He has written several books, including "Be a Wagamama Woman (Kodansha)," "What Only People Who Seize Good Marriages Value (co-authored with Emi Suuchi, published by Seishun Publications)," and "The Art of Marriage (Chuokoron Shinsha).

(*) Calculated by dividing the number of couples who have successfully married by the total number of couples who have withdrawn. 82% of couples who have successfully married since January 2022.

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